Not Home. Come Home.

2025 Lenten Reflections

Good Friday

Home, Coming

“Carrying His own cross, He went out to the place of the Skull... There they crucified Him.”

John 19:17-18

Atonement by Li Kai Tong

Good Friday: Love Hung on Beams

The beams of a home are meant to hold up the weight of safety, of belonging, of love. But on Good Friday, those beams hold up something else — the body of God, broken for the world.

This is the day that Love does not stay in comfort.
It walks willingly into abandonment.
It takes on the trauma of a bruised and bleeding world.
It hangs on beams — not to condemn, but to carry.

Jesus is not just crucified between two criminals — He is crucified between every outsider who has ever been told they don’t belong. Between every aching heart that has knocked on the door of "Home" and been turned away.

Jesus knows the agony of being “Not Home.” He enters it fully — the betrayal of friends, the collapse of community, the weight of injustice, the silence of heaven. He becomes the one who is despised, rejected.

Good Friday is not just about what Love suffered — it’s about what Love built.

On that cross, Love began laying a new foundation — not of stone, but of mercy. A framework of belonging for the abandoned. A shelter for those who’ve never known the warmth of home. Those beams are strong enough to carry us all.

Today, we look to those who are suffering:

  • The abandoned teenager aging out of foster care with no one waiting;

  • The mother navigating cheap rent and court dates;

  • The person battling addiction, trying again — and again;

  • The elder alone in a sterile room no one visits;

  • The man behind bars wondering if he can ever begin again;

  • The woman trapped in a relationship that erases her worth.

These are not statistics. They are human stories.They are hearts Love died to hold.These are the ones we are called to draw near to, not pity from afar.

This is what Love does:
It finds the outsider.
It shoulders the shame.
It builds a doorway where there was only a wall.

Come Home

The world may shout: You don’t belong here!
The Cross says: Love will go anywhere to find you.
The heart of God forever whispers: Come Home, my beloved one.

For those who feel like walls have only ever kept them out —
Here is a new kind of wall being built.
Not to exclude, but to hold.
Not to confine, but to cradle.

Love is building a home where dreams are not foolish, where agency is restored, where healing is real.

We do not follow a Savior who avoided pain.
We follow one who entered it fully — and made it a doorway.

So let us go, with quiet hearts and steady hands, to the places where others have been told they are too late, too broken, too lost.

And let us say — with our presence, our patience, and our love: "Not Home? Come Home."

The beams of the Cross are still holding.
And the dream of resurrection is just beginning.

Just Joining Us

Through Lent we have considered the invitation: “Not Home? Come Home,” rooting ourselves in a growing awareness of what it means to contend for shalom. Now in Holy Week, we have crafted a series within the series and are taking the time to consider the HOME that Christ's life, death and resurrection invite us into.

This is not your typical Holy Week reflection, but is a raw, unflinching reckoning with suffering—not as an abstract idea, but as the deeply real pain of the incarcerated, addicted, abandoned, food insecure, mentally ill, traumatized, and forgotten.

Guided by Ralph Waldo Emerson’s words, “Houses are made of walls and beams; homes are made of love and dreams,” we have meditated on each of these words (which you can read by clicking the linked words above). Grounded in sacramental theology, we believe the Gospel is not partial but whole, touching every part of us—spiritual, emotional, cognitive, physical, and relational. In Christ’s suffering, we find a container wide enough for the world’s ache, and in His resurrection, the bold beginning of its healing.